While traversing the Internet recently, I came across a most interesting quote about love. I thought that I would share it. It was credited to the great and ageless philosopher, Anonymous. It reads:
“Falling in love with someone isn’t always going to be easy… anger… tears… laughter… It’s when you want to be together despite it all. That’s when you truly love another. I’m sure of it.”
For those of you who are married or who have found the love of your life, I think you can easily recognize the truth in Anonymous’s statement. Love is messy business. It is the most amazing combination of thought, work, emotions, and passion. It is simultaneous confidence and apprehension. To fall in love means the end of self reliance and a sharing of your deepest thoughts: your dreams, aspirations, and fears. Your life is no longer just your own because now someone else has entered it in the most special of ways – altering patterns and reshaping paradigms along the way. Simply put – true love will change your life.
We can appreciate the deep feelings of love that exist between a man and a woman. We all desire the chance to share in a love that has this kind of depth and meaning. Singles search for it while couples work hard to maintain and build it. We know its value and will do most anything to feel it.
I wonder if this isn’t how God feels about us? You know that feeling you got in the pit of your stomach when you first opened up and expressed your true feelings about someone you loved, uncertain if or how they would respond? I wonder if God feels that same way about us sometimes. Think about it – He has loved us since the beginning of time. He sacrificed His Son so that our sin would no longer keep us separated from Him. He has said and done everything necessary to allow the ones He loves the most to be with Him forever. He has opened Himself up to us completely and now He waits. As the quote says, this couldn’t have been easy. God wants to be together with us, despite it all. We know this to be true from Romans 5:6-8. “You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
He is waiting for us, with gifts unimaginable because of the amazing love of He wants to share with us. He’s at the door, arms open, waiting for your response. So what are you waiting for?
I always felt that this song said a lot about human love in that sometimes we hide it under a bushel (or like the song says (build a fence around it afraid that by sharing might tear it apart) as Christians we must fight to let our love light shine to everyone family friends and strangers. The outcome will exceed our greatest expectations.
Selfish One sung by
Jackie Ross
Selfish one why keep your love to yourself
oh oh yeah
it’s like a souvenir that just sits on a shelf
oh oh oh oh oh oh
It seems like you built a fence around your heart and afraid that sharing
might tear it apart and ya pass up every chance at the start of romance oh
oh oh oh oh Selfish one why keep your love in store oh oh yeah you think
it’s steel that will keep forever more oh oh oh oh oh but steel wears out
through weather and age and a heart could break down in a lonely stage you
better let your heart down mate, before it’s too late
You let so much time pass by, and I find myself still giving you the eye
then you must have realized, cause much to my surprise you’re making eyes
at me Is it really you?
Now, selfish one you’re walking me to my door
oh oh yeah
selfish one, you never did this before
oh oh no
Without a chance to resist, your lips met mine
you begin to let your lovelight shine
and I can see that you’re really on the ball, and
you’re not selfish at all
no-o-o, not at all
no-o, the way you hold me
oh oh yeah, the way you squeeze me
No you’re not selfish, no no no
You’re not selfish at all
Oh oh oh, not at all
No-o the way ya kiss me
Don’t ya know that I love the way ya hold me yeah
No-o-o not at all, no-o-o not at all, no-o-o not at all